Do You Have Statistics On That?

My unemployment interview was today...dun dun DUN! I was forthright and tried not to overly dramatize my situation. My interviewer was very professional and moved things along swiftly. She explained that my employer had not returned the form they were sent and she would therefore be calling them to hear their side (they have a side...really?). If necessary she would call me back for rebuttal. She called me back for rebuttal....Gee Monetra! Apparently Precious was running the show while Princessa remained silent. I was made of aware of alllll the things they never told me during my tenure. A~MaZ~ing! I recall a conversation when told that area was among the worst in the state they actually said "Do you have statistics on that? I was like...umm "The blood on the sidewalk from the three people shot last night?". According to Big Mama ALL~Might-TY that proved zilch. People especially employer's create their own reality and think everyone is just going to roll along with it but eventually karma will be the biggest & baddest bitch to hit the block! WatchOutNow!  

I think we all know this feeling!

 

Mistakes.... I've Made A Few

There are things we wish never happened or wish we had done differently. It's our life lessons and how we learn to do better in the future. One thing I have learned is that saying become cliché’s for a reason. So many people have made the same damn mistake that now it's like "Please refer to page 17 and cliché #121".  I am remembering my Grandfather's wisdom right now. He use to say, "Don't stay to long at the fair". Which as a child seemed.... RIDICULOUS! Who in their right mind would leave a Fair early? Dude! Seriously? As I've gotten older that advice has applied to so many area of my life. To often we stay in situations way longer then we should for reasons that don't really hold water. It does not matter how good the sex is...when the relationship is over you need to get out. Right now I'm dealing with a job situation. I stayed longer they I should have hoping it would get better but of course it never did. Two years in I’m fired and filing an assault charge against my Manager. I should have gotten out at the one-year mark but I stayed to long at the Fair. Drama!