6 Women To Keep Away From Your Man

6 Women To Keep Away From Your Man

On My Grind Pt. 2

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Soooo this week at work we had a fly infestation. Not just the regular warm weather flies. These were the biggest flies I have ever seen. Dead people flies. What in the unholy hell!!! They were the size of thumb nails. Usually this means something dead IS near by. My co-workers think I'm over exaggerating the situation. I don't see how that's possible. AND someone hit my my car. Most likely they had just completed a drug transaction and had difficulty making a u-turn while sparking the crack pipe. I am convince God is trying to tell me something. as in don't get comfortable here! This is a rest stop on my way up the mountain. Do not try to make it into a home!
...I'm listen God....really I am

On My Grind

So I have been on my Grind since May 3rd. I was sooooooo happy to get this job and clearly soooooo delusional. This was driven home on Thursday as I watched our Board of Directors, all African American, enjoying a sumptuous buffet of Fried Chicken and Watermelon. Really... I mean...REALLY. I breathed in and breathed out...and with great difficulty somehow maintained my composure.

  ...just dreadful

It's Been A Minute...But I'm Baaaaaaccccck!

It's either one or the other! I have found myself with not 1... not 2... but 3 jobs! All great offers from places I'd like to work. Full-time I have returned to the non-profit sector. For awhile I will also be working part-time with the Census. I still plan to continue my other pursuits as well as my writing (no comments from the cat box!!) I have so much inside of me I want to bring out. I know I can't rest and go with the flow.  Oddly as my professional life evolves my personal life continues to evolve as well. It's been almost a year since I've started dating. I thought what I wanted was a relationship. Now I'm not so sure.

I've been neglectful...

It's been almost 3 months since I lasted posted! Where did the time go!

For starters I have had an almost 2 month relationship....ova da phone!!! LMAO There were highs... There were lows... It was pure theater! Lets call him "Fillie" don't ask. Anywho, I met him in chat....don't judge me either! He looked good and he sounds like Tone Loc all rough and sexxy......sorry, my mind started to wander.  There were some "issues" but aren't there always. He said the sweetest things to me and I think it's true women do fall in love through the ears. He felt like a well worn cotton sweater, fresh out of the dryer on a rainy day. I wanted to wrap him around me and be warmed. We talked about everything and I looked forward to his company.

He lives to far for a spur of the moment date but closest enough to meet up on a Saturday. I wanted to meet to someplace neutral (read safe). He wanted to hook-up for a weekend. We made plans and I backed out...twice. The third time proved to be the undoing. We were suppose to meet this coming weekend. He wanted me to take a few days off and meet him in Atlantic City. I declined. He then wanted to come here for the weekend. At first I agreed but then after much prompting from my "friends" I told him he would have to stay in a hotel. He declined. This is what you would call a Mexican standoff. I acquiesced for 48 hours.

Last night we had it out...le sigh. After brow-beating me for over an hour I couldn't take it anymore. My inner good girl went bad and I got the giggles. I told him him he couldn't stay with me and that he was wearing me out with his conversation! Fillie became enraged! Lions & Tigers & Bears! Oh My! It ended with him continuing to over talk me while I told him maybe this entire affair had been a bad idea...just before I hung up. Oh well, on to the next one! Deuces!